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Reader Stories from Those Trying to Get Pregnant

Tips and Experiences from Those Trying to Get Pregnant with Infertility

By , About.com Guide

Updated July 02, 2010

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When you're trying to get pregnant or struggling with infertility, you want to hear from those who have been there. Also, you've got your own wisdom, opinions, and stories to share. Here are a variety of ways to share your trying to get pregnant and infertility experiences, opinions, and coping tips, plus read what others have shared.

Trying to Get Pregnant and Infertility Stories

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If you're struggling with trying to get pregnant, you are not alone. When you tell your story, it helps others who will relate to your experiences. When did you first realize something was wrong? How long have you been trying, and are you feeling hopeful for the future? How has infertility changed you and your life? Share your infertility story here.

Share Your Trying to Conceive Blog

Writing an infertility blog.Photo © User Zela from Stock.xchng

Do you keep a fertility, trying to conceive, or life after infertility blog? Please share your blog with us. Whether you're just starting to try to get pregnant or have been trying for years, or if you're pregnant after infertility or have decided to stop treatment...whatever your infertility blog's focus, we'd like to hear more about it.

Pregnancy Symptoms – When You're NOT Pregnant

Are these cramps pregnancy symptoms? Or just PMS?Photo: Tom Le Goff / Getty Images

It's happened to all of us. You feel nauseated, fatigued, and you're just sure these cramps are different than your typical PMS cramps. You feel pregnant! But then, it turns out you're not. Have you ever thought symptoms you were experiencing were signs of pregnancy when they were not? Which "pregnancy symptoms" drive you crazy? And if you've ever been pregnant, could you tell the difference between the real thing and imaginary pregnancy symptoms?

How Often Do You Have Sex When Trying to Get Pregnant?

How often do you have sex when trying to conceive?Photo: Jan Tyler / Getty Images

Experts recommend having sex three to four times a week if you want to get pregnant. Or, you can track ovulation signs and try to have sex in the days before ovulation occurs. But what experts tell us and what we do are sometimes very different . How often do you have sex when you're trying to get pregnant? More often, the same, or, ironically, less often?

Home Pregnancy Test Experiences

Positive pregnancy testPhoto: Don Farrall / Getty Images

When trying to get pregnant, I often wondered why I didn't buy stock in pregnancy tests. They can be so addictive. The worst experience I ever had was getting a false positive -- it was an evaporation line on a cheap test, which I suppose I imagined to be darker than it really was. What has your experience with home pregnancy tests been? Did you ever get a false positive? Did you get a negative result from a home pregnancy test when other tests or blood work confirmed pregnancy?

Favorite Ovulation Sign Detection

Basal Body Temperature Chart with Ovulation / iStockPhotoPhoto © iStockPhoto

There are so many ways to track ovulation signs, from body basal temperature charting to cervical-mucus tracking. There are ovulation predictor kits and fertility monitors, and saliva ferning kits and cervical position checks. What's your favorite method of ovulation detection?

Thoughts on Getting Pregnant After 35

Fertility and ageImage: Nanette Hooslag / Getty Images

You probably know that your fertility declines after age 35. Miscarriage rates and pregnancy complication rates also go up with age. Whether you're trying for your first or subsequent child, you most likely have feelings about trying to get pregnant after 35. Are you feeling hopeful? Or worried you waited too long? Share your thoughts on trying to get pregnant after 35 here.

Thoughts on Starting Clomid Treatment

Buying Clomid at the drug store.Image: Craig Smallish / Getty
Clomid treatment is often a couple's first experience with fertility treatments, especially in cases of female factor infertility or unexplained infertility. It can be a time of excitement, hope, and worry. If you've used Clomid in the past, what were your thoughts on starting treatment? If you're about to start treatment soon, how do you feel about the upcoming treatment cycle?

Thoughts on Conceiving Twins on Clomid

Fertility drugs increase your risk of having twins, triplets, or more.Image: Craig Smallish / Getty

As with any drug, taking Clomid comes with risks. One of the big ones is the chance of getting pregnant with twins -- or more. What are your thoughts on conceiving twins? Would you be excited? Scared?

IVF Costs - How Much Readers Paid

Fertility treatment costs can add up quickly.Photo: Rob Melnychuk / Getty Images
IVF treatment is emotionally intense, physically intense, and financially intense. There are those who are lucky enough to receive full insurance coverage for IVF treatment, but it's not common. If you've tried IVF, or looked into it, how much did it cost? (Or how much did the clinic say it would cost, if you didn't go through with it in the end?)

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