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Rachel Gurevich

Donít Wait Until Youíre a "Real Family" — You Already Are One

By November 26, 2012

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It's easy to think that holidays are meant to be enjoyed most with children. Many holiday traditions seem to be focused on children, like putting out cookies for Santa. While children do add a special blessing to the holiday season, you don't need to have kids to create your own holiday traditions.

I think we get hung up on this idea that family always means two adults and at least one child, and we can't begin our own family traditions until we have a "real family." But family is more than that. You and your partner alone are a real family. Family can also be created by close circles of friends. It's not like "family" comes in dehydrated packets - take two adults and just add kids. It's so much more than that.

Understandably, the holiday season is difficult for the fertility challenged, especially those with primary infertility. But don't let that keep you from starting your own holiday traditions. If you keep waiting until you have kids, whether through treatments or adoption, years of your life can go by.

Why not bring some extra holiday cheer into your life now? Don't wait.

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