Chances are, you've heard at least one of these comments (or a variation of them):
"When are you planning on having kids?"
"This house would be so much more cheerful with little grandchildren running around it."
"It's time you've settled down and created yourself a family!"
"Happy birthday! You're 35 this year, no? Isn't it time to start thinking about having kids? That biological clock isn't going to tick forever..."
"When are you going to give your son a sibling? You know, being an only child is not good for a kid..."
People love to ask about your family plans. Sometimes it's genuine curiosity. Sometimes it's meant to remind you that your parents would like some grandchildren - as soon as possible, of course! And then there are people who are just nosy.
I'm not sure what's harder: hearing the question, or trying to respond to it. No matter how many times it came up, I always found myself stumbling over my words. Or saying some pat response, but feeling my heart shake inside.
How have you dealt with these questions? Please share your experiences with answering questions on having kids. Also, you can read what other readers have shared.
Looking forward to your responses!
Still practicing!!